If youโve spent any time at all learning Japanese, youโve likely noticed that mastering even the basics requires understanding a lot of moving parts.
The good news is that the Japanese language tends to be very consistentโthat means that once you understand how one part of a sentence works, you can count on it to keep behaving that way.
Pronouns in Japanese are the same. While Japanese pronouns function very differently than they might in Englishโincluding not appearing at all sometimes!โthey are simple to use once you buckle down and get a grasp on them.
To use Japanese pronouns correctly, youโll need to consider not only personal pronouns but also Japanese demonstrative and indefinite pronouns too. Don't worry โ you already know what these are in English, even if you don't know the jargon!
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What Does A Pronoun Do?
Before you begin learning about pronouns, itโs important to make sure that youโre on the right page regarding what a pronoun actually is.
A pronoun is a word that refers to either a person or another agent in a sentence or utterance. In other words, things like โIโ, โsheโ, โthatโ, and โeveryoneโ are all pronouns (albeit of different kinds).
They are nouns that indicate what (or whom) youโre speaking about, but theyโre not as specific as proper nouns. Theyโre the difference between โthatโs a dogโ and โHachiko is a dog.โ
What Are Pronouns?

In English, you can expect to use pronouns often, especially when talking about yourself. In fact, itโs almost impossible to discuss what happened to you, what youโre thinking about, or what you plan to do without using the pronoun โI.โ
However, in Japanese, many pieces of a sentence canโand often areโomitted while still being understood, and pronouns are some of the most commonly omitted.
You will find that pronouns such as โIโ and โyouโ are much more rarely used compared to English, because they can be left out of the sentence entirely.
However, if you find this hard to wrap your mind around, donโt worry; you can definitely include them yourself, and you will not be incorrect.
Just be aware that many native speakers will elect not to use โIโ or โyouโ often simply to save time and avoid sounding redundant.
Another important difference between pronouns in English and Japanese is that Japanese pronouns are laden with much more information than their English counterparts.
When you say โIโ in English, the only thing the listener or reader knows is that you are referring to yourself.
In Japanese, โIโ can take many forms that change based upon everything from the age and gender of the speaker to their job or social position. You can learn a lot about someone based only on the pronoun they use!
This also means that you should give some consideration for what pronouns you use for others; using an informal one on your boss may earn you a surprised double-take.
Cultural and Social Implications of Different Japanese Pronouns
In Japanese culture, the use of pronouns can convey various social and cultural implications.
The choice of pronoun can indicate one's gender, age, social status, and even personality traits. It is a reflection of the individual's identity and their relationship with others.
For example, the use of the first-person pronoun โwatashiโ is considered polite and formal in most situations. It is commonly used by both men and women in business settings and also in public speeches or formal occasions.
On the other hand, the first-person pronoun โbokuโ is typically used by young men and boys and is often considered less formal and more casual.
The use of second-person pronouns also carries cultural and social implications. The most common second-person pronoun, โanata,โ is often considered too direct and impolite in Japanese culture.
Instead, people often use titles or names, such as โsenseiโ for teachers, โsanโ for acquaintances, or โchanโ for close friends or children.
In recent years, there has been a growing trend of using gender-neutral pronouns in Japan, such as โoreโ or โataiโ. These pronouns are used to avoid gender-based assumptions and to promote inclusivity and diversity.
Personal Pronouns In Japanese

Personal pronouns are those that, as the name suggests, refer to people.
In English, these would be โIโ, โmeโ, โmyโ, โmineโ, and โmyselfโ, in addition to these same pronoun forms for โyouโ, โheโ, โsheโ, โitโ, โweโ, the plural โyouโ, and โtheyโ.
All of these words exist to help people explain their own existence in relation to themselves and other people.
In Japanese, most people will elect not to use the first person pronounโIโ or โyouโ. Simply speak or write the sentence as normal, but omit the โIโ or โyouโ at the beginning.
However, if you would like to use these pronounsโwhich is not incorrect; it only takes longerโyour general best bets are as follows:
Watashi ็ง
The simplest way to ensure that you do not offend or confuse anyone when using โIโ is to use watashi, the all-purpose โI.โ
Itโs formal enough to be used with those of higher rank than you, but itโs not so formal that it sounds odd among friends.
If you would like to be exceptionally formal, such as talking to someone of great importance, you can change this to watakushi ็ง instead.
Among your friends, you can actually differentiate yourself! If you're a girl, you can use atashi instead, and boys use boku to refer to themselves with โI.โ
Anata ใใชใ
It can be odd to use anata regularly in conversation; more commonly, Japanese speakers will opt to address the person by their name instead.
However, if you would like to use โyou,โ the most acceptable form across the board is anata. While words like kimi and omae also mean โyou,โ they are only used for those lower ranking than you and can convey an informal or even angry tone.
Kare/Kanojo ๅฝผ/ๅฝผๅฅณ
When it comes to โheโ and โshe,โ itโs as simple as memorizing that kare means โheโ and kanojo means โshe.โ These are the words to use, and there are not really any alternatives for you to choose between!
Gendered Japanese Pronouns
You should keep in mind that there are dozens of pronouns for the third person in Japanese, and many aren't ever used.
There is no distinction between โheโ and โsheโ pronouns. The third-person singular pronoun kare ๅฝผ is often translated as โheโ in English, but it can also be used to refer to a woman in certain contexts, such as in formal writing or when the gender of the person being referred to is unknown or irrelevant.
Similarly, the third-person singular pronoun kanojo ๅฝผๅฅณ is often translated as โsheโ in English, but it can also be used to refer to a man in certain contexts.
It's important to note that the use of gender-neutral language is becoming increasingly common in Japan, particularly among younger generations.
Some people use alternative pronouns such as die ใใฃใผ or ai ใขใคto refer to themselves or others in a gender-neutral way.
Additionally, some companies and organizations have started to use gender-neutral language in their communications and materials.
Here's a breakdown of some of the ways you could translate โheโ or โsheโ into Japanese.
Keep in mind they aren't used in the same way as English, and many Japanese people will just refer to someone by using their name.
Word | Kanji | Formality | Use |
ano kata | ใใฎๆน | very formal | used for both genders |
ano hito | ใใฎไบบ | neutral | means โthat personโ |
yatsu | ๅฅด | very informal | means a thing, guy, dude |
kare | ๅฝผ | informal | means he/boyfriend |
kanojo | ๅฝผๅฅณ | informal | means she/girlfriend |
How Do I Make a Japanese Pronoun Possessive or Plural?
The particle no typically shows possession in Japanese, and it works with pronouns too. If you want to use the possessive form to say my in Japanese, you would say โI (possessive),โ which would be watashi no.
This works across all of the pronouns youโve learned in the same way!
Most of the time, you will not need to pluralize what you say; Japanese does not place heavy emphasis on whether something is singular or plural like English does.
However, if you feel that you need to use the plural form for something, you may add โtachi to the end (watashitachi > we, anatatachi > you all).
Demonstrative Pronouns In Japanese

Demonstrative pronouns, as their name may suggest, demonstrate things. They indicate where items or people are in relation to the world around them and the speaker.
The most common demonstrative pronouns are โthisโ, โthatโ, โtheseโ, and โthoseโ, but โhereโ, โthereโ, and โover thereโ can be included too.
Japanese, like English, operates using an understanding of distance relative to the speaker when creating demonstrative pronouns. This means that things close by will begin with ko-, things further away with so-, and things quite far away with a-.
To see this in action, consider:
- Kore ใใ (This)
- Sore ใใ (That)
- Are ใใ (That over there)
- Koko ใใ(Here)
- Soko ใใ (There)
- Asoko ใใใ (Way over there)
You can see that the words change in predictable ways based on the distance of the object or point of interest from the speaker (or relative to the listener).
Indefinite Pronouns In Japanese

You use indefinite pronouns all the time, even if you donโt realize it. You use them to talk about people, amounts, or just general things that are not particularly defined. Think of โanythingโ, โeveryoneโ, and โsomethingโ.
They can also be used to express generalizations or to avoid specifying a particular person or thing.
Take a look at the following list of pronouns to boost your vocabulary and Japanese language skills:
- Minna ็ (Everyone)
- Doko demo ใฉใใงใ (Everywhere)
- Subete ๅ จใฆ (Everything)
- Dareka ่ชฐใ (Someone)
- Dokoka ใฉใใ (Somewhere)
- Nanika ไฝใ (Something)
- Dare demo ่ชฐใงใ (Anyone)
- Doko demo ใฉใใงใ (Anywhere)
- Nan demo ไฝใงใ (Anything)
As you can see, many of these pronouns rely on particles like ka, the question particle, to slightly alter their meaning.
Japanese Question Words
Did you know that even question words are pronouns? They are called interrogative pronouns, and they introduce some type of question in both English and Japanese.
Japanese has a set of question words known as โdoubutsu words,โ which are used to ask questions about things, people, places, and time.
If you look closely, you can even see that these question words are used to create many of the pronouns listed above!
Here are some of the most common examples of pronouns that you can learn!
- Dare ่ชฐ (Who)
- Nani ไฝ (What)
- Itsu ใใค (When)
- Doko ใฉใ (Where)
- Naze (or you may use doushite) ใชใ/ใฉใใใฆ (Why)
- Dore ใฉใ (Which)
These question words are typically placed at the beginning of a sentence, followed by the particle ga ใ or wo ใ, depending on the word.
Japanese question words don't always have an exact equivalent in English, and their usage can vary depending on the context and situation.
Mastering Japanese Pronouns Comes With Practice

As you continue to expand your knowledge of Japanese, it can feel overwhelming to determine which aspects you should learn next.
Pronouns are a vital part of expressing basic information about yourself, your situation, and others, so they should be among the first items that you focus on.
However, some are more important than others; consider prioritizing personal pronouns and interrogative pronouns (question words) first so that you can establish a strong baseline for simple communication.
After that, you can work on demonstrative pronouns to give your speech more depth and context, followed by indefinite pronouns to refine the details. You don't need to learn all the Japanese pronouns at once!
The best way to learn any language, Japanese included, is to immerse yourself. In the StoryLearningยฎ method, that means reading stories in Japanese at your level. Check out these Japanese books for inspiration.
You can also engage in real Japanese conversations and take note of which words you wish that you had access to; this can be a great indicator of where you should turn your attention next!
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